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What are the symptoms that indicate it's time to move on?

Are you good at decision making?

What examples of moving on in your life can you think of?

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Geez... I'm just terrible at making decisions. Sometimes the right choice comes to just like that (snap!), but sometimes I change my mind 5 times a second. When I'm not certain of something it's quite easy to make me precarious with the right arguments. I just hate when it happens ;)

But the time to move on... It depends of what area of life are we talking about. For example, I've changed my job and left my hometown, but I can't think of any specific moment, specific decision or a reason that made me do it. I've had enough of my past life, an opportunity had arisen and it happened - just like that. That was a quick decision (one of a few in my life ;D), but I don't regret it.

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Grzegorz P.:
Thanks Grzegorz, I'll get back to this later.
But the time to move on... It depends of what area of life are we talking about.
For example, when is it time to quit GL and move on to RL?
(just a digression)

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Lidia K.:
Grzegorz P.:
Thanks Grzegorz, I'll get back to this later.

Gosh. I've broke my soul open and you're telling me to wait...

Women!

;D
But the time to move on... It depends of what area of life are we talking about.
For example, when is it time to quit GL and move on to RL?
(just a digression)

We're talking 'bout one specific person or a group?
It depends of people. I've been on a group meeting after... I think it was something like two or three months since the begining of the group and I had a great time, meeting face-to-face people I've only read ;)

Moving on to reality with one specific guy or gal is a completely different thing ;)

Ps. Tell me one thing, 'cause maybe I've missed something. Was there a group meeting on Anglo?
Steve Jones

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Generally the signs that it's time to move on are as follows:

Are you in a situation which feels "wrong"?

Maybe the situation you're in is "costing" you too much?

Maybe you're putting in far more than you're taking out?

The path that you're on is in some way incongruent with the person you imagine yourself to be?

Your ultimate aim will not be achieved by following your current path?

In other words, there is simply no point in continuing your current course of action because no "good" will come of it?

(Am I making any sense?)
Kari W.

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Steve Jones:
Generally the signs that it's time to move on are as follows:

Are you in a situation which feels "wrong"?

Maybe the situation you're in is "costing" you too much?

Maybe you're putting in far more than you're taking out?

The path that you're on is in some way incongruent with the person you imagine yourself to be?

Your ultimate aim will not be achieved by following your current path?

In other words, there is simply no point in continuing your current course of action because no "good" will come of it?

(Am I making any sense?)

YES! Words to live by if you ask me. I'm going to copy these down and use it as a checklist!

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What are the symptoms that indicate it's time to move on?

When you feel the first symptoms of the need to move on its probably about right.

> Are you good at decision making?
I used to be pretty crap at being assertive and decisive probably due to mistaking it with being bossy. It then occurred to me later in life that people respect you more when you have these attributes and it shows strength of character.

What examples of moving on in your life can you think of?

Divorcing my wife and the good life in Australia and never looking back because I was too young and wanted to see the world.

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So far I have been too good in making decisions that had a great impact on my life, but it would take lots of pages to tell the story...
I think that we live only once and there is no time in dwelling
on such things as "change" :)
I have never been afraid of changes since I don't want to think "what if....." , that is why I take what life gives me...

I think the symptoms for a move on are individual, each of us recognizes them in a different way.

my symptoms? as far as changing my job was concerned? Lots of, but the main, crying in a bathroom after work... a lot of sleep... just to escape...

the examples? hmm
* leaving a man who had declared himself (finaly) after a year of my waiting, and a decision to start a new life ...
* leaving my studies just in the middle of a term and moving to Łódź...
* after attending Mass Media calsses I left and did a degree in Literature (I am still amased by that fact)
* leaving my job and taking another one less paid, far as hell but.... worth it...
and so on and so forth...

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Steve Jones:
Generally the signs that it's time to move on are as follows:

Are you in a situation which feels "wrong"?

Maybe the situation you're in is "costing" you too much?

Maybe you're putting in far more than you're taking out?

The path that you're on is in some way incongruent with the person you imagine yourself to be?

Your ultimate aim will not be achieved by following your current path?

In other words, there is simply no point in continuing your current course of action because no "good" will come of it?

(Am I making any sense?)

Great NLP analytical approach to things Steve! I love it too!

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Grzegorz P.:
Geez... I'm just terrible at making decisions. Sometimes the right choice comes to just like that (snap!), but sometimes I change my mind 5 times a second. When I'm not certain of something it's quite easy to make me precarious with the right arguments. I just hate when it happens ;)
Geeez homie G! Are you my wife or something?

I'm good at making decisions, which of course is not to be mistaken for "I always make the right decisions".

It's time to move on when you've tried all thinkable and unthinlable potential solutions to a problem and yet you haven't achieved shit.

It's time to move on when you've grown tired of a certain particular situation in your life, you feel like suffocating and desperately want to change something in your life.

It's time to move when you've cried long enough after something/someone.

Keeping all three above cases in mind,it's time to move on when, due to your action related to any of the above, your bank account starts free-falling toward a rock bottom.

EDIT: Ok, I only just read Steve's post. Forget what I said.Jarek A. edytował(a) ten post dnia 09.11.08 o godzinie 17:42

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Jarek A.:

Geeez homie G! Are you my wife or something?

I hope not, man, I hope not!
;)

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Grzegorz P.:
Gosh. I've broke my soul open and you're telling me to wait...

Women!

;D
Sorry, I was leaving and couldn't write a proper response :)
Impatient men!
meeting face-to-face people I've only read ;)
Yes, that's cool, especially in the beginning:)
I actually meant something like quitting GL and doing something else.
Moving on to reality with one specific guy or gal is a completely different thing ;)
Oh, no. This is usually a mistake;)
Ps. Tell me one thing, 'cause maybe I've missed something. Was there a group meeting on Anglo?
Sure, you definitely did miss something,
there was a meeting last Monday ;)
http://www.goldenline.pl/forum/anglosphere/581704

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Lidia K.:
Grzegorz P.:
Gosh. I've broke my soul open and you're telling me to wait...

Women!

;D
Sorry, I was leaving and couldn't write a proper response :)
Impatient men!

As usual ;) We want the prize right here and right now ;)
meeting face-to-face people I've only read ;)
Yes, that's cool, especially in the beginning:)
I actually meant something like quitting GL and doing something else.

Something else - for example? Does it mean you can't do it AND stay on GL? ;)
Moving on to reality with one specific guy or gal is a completely different thing ;)
Oh, no. This is usually a mistake;)

Usually - maybe, but not always. I've met one of my best friends on the internet. Although she's a friend, not a girlfriend, so maybe there's a grain of truth in your words ;)

Ps. Tell me one thing, 'cause maybe I've missed something. Was there a group meeting on Anglo?
Sure, you definitely did miss something,
there was a meeting last Monday ;)
http://www.goldenline.pl/forum/anglosphere/581704

Unfortunately I was at work on Monday. On Tuesday as well ;)

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Lidia K.:
Grzegorz P.:
Thanks Grzegorz, I'll get back to this later.
But the time to move on... It depends of what area of life are we talking about.
For example, when is it time to quit GL and move on to RL?
(just a digression)
For me, I keep having a nagging feeling that it's now. :)

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I've grown fond of yous guys.

Don't leave.

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Tatiana S.:
For me, I keep having a nagging feeling that it's now. :)
When you feel you've said it all.
When you just stare blankly at the screen.

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I haven't grown fond of them. But still, the days are getting shorter and people want to stay connected. When is it time to move on? When you feel it is something that just does not work for you. Don't do things that don't work.

(okay I have grown fond) hehe :)))

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Joj Y.:
Don't do things that don't work.
I'm with you on this.

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Grzegorz P.:
Something else - for example? Does it mean you can't do it AND stay on GL? ;)
It's rather tough, don't you think?
Usually - maybe, but not always. I've met one of my best friends on the internet. Although she's a friend, not a girlfriend, so maybe there's a grain of truth in your words ;)
I've met so many of my friends on the net.
I don't have the time and energy to nourish my friendships. No strength to start new ones.
Unfortunately I was at work on Monday. On Tuesday as well ;)
Then it's service not work!
How come you have the time for GL being such a busy man????
Maybe I can learn something?

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Joj Y.:
When you feel it is something that just does not work for you. Don't do things that don't work.
How about things that don't work for you but are perfect for others?
(okay I have grown fond) hehe :)))
:)

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